Sunday, August 3, 2014

You Can be In #Love More Than 1 Time in your Lifetime......


(Photo taken by Sara C)



I use to think that Love only came once in a lifetime. Now that I've gotten older, and more mature on the matter my understanding of Love has a whole new meaning and along with love there will be heartache or heartbreak either way you call it. When the heart is broken or has been hurt it can only be healed over time and understanding of how YOU as an individual can heal it and overcome the obstacle in your own life.

Every one person in this world heals differently. Love not only takes time but it takes learning the other person, You may have not have intended to fall in love with an individual but you can't control it if its meant to happen. Not all love is supposed to last a lifetime, some love is only to help you through a hard time in life thats why you meet people for a reason. Well back to my subject which is Loving more than once.

It all goes back to your 1st Love and say things didn't work out and if you can remember the 1st time that that Love broke your heart... it felt so raw, like it was pierced through with a dagger, or it was that feeling of your heart dropping and feeling like it went to your stomach and all you wanna do is vomit...LOL. Same with the next special person that enters your life you may have not wanted to love again but God or as some people call it fate can bring the next person in for a season and you may catch feelings for that person because they complete a piece of your heart that needed replacing. Its almost like a patch that covered over that 1st wound. You now feel complete again because the open wound from the past is healed for the moment. But beware because that wound is now more sensitive than ever.

Now say this next love doesn't work out there is going to be another heartache....the reality was brought to the table and now there is nothing that can reverse what has been done. You now are left with that layer in your heart that was once patched to be sliced open again, but this time the wound is deeper and more severe and now that wound will take longer to heal.

But, don't give on LOVE there is hope and don't regret those individuals that hurt you. They were meant to wound you or hurt you to make you the stronger person that you are or that you will become. It was all meant to happen for a reason and that reason my friend is for the last and only person that will enter your life to heal every bit and piece of every heart ache and pain you ever endured and you know what....9 out of 10 you will being doing the same thing for that person. Heartbreak happens and in todays era it happens a lot. But I believe everyone is meant to have a Love of their life and YOU my friend will find it~

Stay Blessed~

Sara C

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