#RelationshipAdvice101 : 3 Short Lessons

To this day I get asked if my EX and I are still together ....uuuuuummmmm NO..thank God!! I always end up saying something nice in his defense,, BUT today I speak out loud... in all honesty the Coward packed and left in the middle of the night right before Christmas last year which left me completely hurt for a good while....all over some regular stuff most couples go through... Wheeeew,, I can breathe now!! LOL!
I don't say this for anyone to feel sorry for me or completely downgrade him but I definitely appreciate the experience and take it as a great lesson learned in so many ways...

 Here's a few I'd like to share...

Lesson #1: a guy can disguise himself as a grown Man but really not be mature enough to handle real responsibilities (or just may not want to), not saying they can't ever be one but they will manipulate you to believe they are!

Lesson #2: Don't always pour all your positive energy into helping someone excel in life just because they see you are excelling in life and reaching goals. Some people just feed off of it and need it in their life because they lack confidence in building their own goals. (We call those moochers!!)

Lesson #3: Know and learn yourself better from this experience. Your strengths and faults. Appreciate the single life and know you deserve waaaay better than what you had!( and know it more when your kids even tell you...LOL!)

There are so many more lessons but I won't take anymore of your time...lol 

P.S. Being single is a choice so don't hate on me giving advice, I am allowed to give advice if I please :)

-Sara C

"Just learn to live & Enjoy life and take daily challenges one day at a time......" - Sara C